We had this discussion the other day, why we have to leave some of our most beautiful relations behind us while forming the ultimate relation with the most important person of our life..
Say it or not, I believe feelings never die.. you may make efforts to keep them un-noticed in some corner of your heart but they still exist...
There is always a bonding that we develop with certain people, which is above and beyond anything.. and it is unfair to leave it unnoticed... Why cant your ex-bf/gf br your friends?? You have all rights to show our respect to each and every person we trust...
But this is one side of the coin... people say you should not see your Xs, as its a disrespect to your current commitment in life... but why is that??
Is it not more about us than thinking about the state of mind of the other person?
I saw a movie about a gay couple, and most of the people in the cinema just find one of the scene quite sentimental..
A man came after many years to meet the ultimate love of his life, who though gay is married to a woman due to social pressure..
The meeting of the two guys, brought tears in the eyes of many people around us... The relation was known to his wife all through these years.. and she just feels so nice to reunite the two lovers...
What would have been the state of mind of the woman all through the years.. she has been cheated but she just lived with it all through her life and even loved her better half even when he told her the truth...
This is a respect, which is above and beyond everything..
The happiest moments are always the ones when our loved ones are happy.. so why to ask your love, leave any of there happiness behind them... respect their feelings.. trust them with whatever they do... thats the only zest of a relationship to me :)
because the sad truth of life is death so be happy and make everyone around you happy...
and don't leave any relation behind you, to repent later..
Complications are just your state of mind.. and only you can conquer it..
So try make things simple with Trust and Respect, the two mantras of a Relationship..
